Interesting:

Sent a priv msg to one person re: my site address that is yet to be published.. 3 people visit at same time.. the only one I sent it to, would take longer to let other's know, despite being asked not to, and I'm sure he did not..

So what is the difference between asking for help in forum's and priv msg?

Cause it's a pain in the ass reading begging msg's when it can be done in forum.

And those ip's who visited are geotagged by isp's, and perm banned, sorry